Kerry and Nathan:
We have now been fostering for three years and it’s been quite a journey! We’ve had lots of successes along the way and our favourite thing is seeing our foster child grow and flourish into the lovely strong girl that she is. At first it’s just little steps, like seeing them smile and laugh more often and as time goes by you start to see them glow and begin to gain confidence. It can be hard at times and that’s why having support is so important. Capstone has been brilliant at this, we have had lots of support from our supervising social worker and also the in-house psychologists. This really helps you to unpick situations and behaviours and gives you practical solutions to try out. Sometimes these are so simple but they truly work! We love being a family who fosters, we’ve learnt so much over the years and feel very much part of a wider family that Capstone provides.
Fostering grants me so many opportunities as a birth child, mainly by me getting a chance to help change a foster child’s life. I have met so many people through fostering, not only the children that have come into our lives but also the professionals that support us. Capstone has really helped me develop as an individual, I have been on training and have had support from the in-house psychologists, this is so important to me, it helps me to be the best foster brother I can be.
Fostering has allowed me to learn new skills which I may not have had chance to learn. I’ve met lots of children and have stayed in touch with them all. I feel very involved in fostering, I play a part in helping foster children to settle into our home, for me it’s about helping foster children feel loved and part of our family.
I feel really happy and settled with my family, they’ve helped me to feel safe and part of. That’s the most important thing for me, that I feel part of. It’s the things like going on holiday together, having meals out and just doing things as a family that means a lot to me.
SSW – Sarah Comments:
Fostering for the McCabe’s has always been a whole family commitment. Kerry & Nathan have successfully managed to combine parenting their birth children alongside a foster child so that they’ve been able to become part of a healthy functioning and fun-loving family. It’s not been without its difficulties and they’ve all needed lots of support at times, but with commitment & perseverance they’ve witnessed some fantastic development and progress in the young people they’ve had in their care.